Dining with Lesbians

A bowl of personal identity served with blueberry pie

Category Archives: Coming Out

Marching to be Equal

And so we went, together, holding hands. Marching for gay rights might sound ordinary to many of you but it’s very special to us, to me. My partner has never, … Continue reading

July 18, 2015 · 9 Comments

Is My Partner Gay?

Sometimes, I wonder if my partner is gay.  We’ve been together for a long time and I know she loves me, but I just don’t think she sees herself as … Continue reading

July 10, 2015 · 15 Comments

Looking Up To (and at!) Ellen DeGeneres

Kale.  What kind of chapter is that?  But I can’t stop laughing out loud reading Ellen DeGeneres’ Seriously…I’m Kidding.  It’s not the usual kind of writing style I’d normally pick … Continue reading

March 11, 2015 · 2 Comments

Homosexuality: A History

I’ve always been curious about how, where and when homophobia started.  I understand that the present form of homosexuality has only been around for a hundred or so years which … Continue reading

March 1, 2015 · Leave a comment

Gay Propaganda in a Fortune Cookie

I was walking through an art exhibition with my sister and found a huge fortune cookie.  The cookie was covered with colorful strips of messages flung onto it by anyone who wanted … Continue reading

February 25, 2015 · 2 Comments

Explaining Homosexuality in a Paper Bra

I existed for the first time.  For the nine years my partner and I have been together, I have never existed.  To a good number of her family and all of … Continue reading

February 8, 2015 · 8 Comments

The Mother of a Lesbian

My co-worker asked about my boy-friend yesterday so I told her about my partner.  Her first question was if my parents accepted me for being a lesbian.  Family bonds are … Continue reading

February 4, 2015 · 4 Comments

Sweating like a Guava from the Fridge

Things have been pretty sticky with my family and almost everything else around.  There were times I had to tell myself to breath.  But I know I’m going to make … Continue reading

January 31, 2015 · Leave a comment

The Lightness of Coming Out

I finally came out to my Aunt in Canada.  It was an unexpected event and I can’t have imagined a better way.  It was a few lines in a long … Continue reading

January 28, 2015 · Leave a comment

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