Dining with Lesbians

A bowl of personal identity served with blueberry pie

Category Archives: Feminist

Anything Ending with -ism is Too Extreme

It was like watching a movie reflected by a foggy mirror and the characters’ gender had been smudged by the steam. I’ve never seen a person identifying as female argue … Continue reading

August 22, 2015 · 4 Comments

Girls Can Fly

I don’t like roller coasters and I still get nervous on planes.  The only reason I strapped a huge plastic tent to my back and jumped off a cliff yesterday … Continue reading

August 2, 2015 · 4 Comments

Suddenly Becoming Female

I’ve never felt so female in my life, not feminine, but female.  I did Gender Studies for my Masters and have been acutely aware of the gender spectrum and the … Continue reading

May 5, 2015 · 4 Comments

The Girl in Nepal

I wonder if the little girl in Nepal is alright.  I wonder if the women there are getting by. We were in Nepal last June and our first cultural shock happened … Continue reading

April 29, 2015 · Leave a comment

Something Dark

Something dark happened today.  No, it was murky and grey, more disgusting than dry darkness. I do Taekwando and I’m a blue-red belt.  Not amazing, but enough to feel confident with … Continue reading

April 23, 2015 · 3 Comments

Send in your CV, woman!

Where are all the women?  We suddenly disappear from the workplace when it comes to managerial jobs. Earlier on when I was recruiting for front line staff, I got a … Continue reading

April 17, 2015 · Leave a comment

Don’t wear pink when you fire someone, that’s too feminine.

I was going to fire someone from the team because of inappropriate behavior. Well, frankly speaking, I received a sexual harassment complaint from another team member on behalf of another … Continue reading

March 16, 2015 · 2 Comments

The Day Dreamer Award – Changing my mind on stone butches

I’ve been nominated by The Little Butch That Could for the Day Dreamer Award. The rules for accepting the award are: Thank the person who gave you the award. Naturally, this … Continue reading

March 15, 2015 · 9 Comments

I Want to Pay for Myself

Female/ Lesbian Empowerment Level on International Women’s Day [10am – 6pm: +120%] [6pm – 2am: -120%] At a gender studies seminar yesterday, I was over the top to talk about … Continue reading

March 9, 2015 · 5 Comments

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