Dining with Lesbians

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Category Archives: Gender

Anything Ending with -ism is Too Extreme

It was like watching a movie reflected by a foggy mirror and the characters’ gender had been smudged by the steam. I’ve never seen a person identifying as female argue … Continue reading

August 22, 2015 · 4 Comments

Girls Can Fly

I don’t like roller coasters and I still get nervous on planes.  The only reason I strapped a huge plastic tent to my back and jumped off a cliff yesterday … Continue reading

August 2, 2015 · 4 Comments

Being a Man like Tony Stark

My partner just started working in Bangkok last week and her boss is visibly gay.  She was telling me about him last night when she said, “I can’t stand his … Continue reading

July 25, 2015 · 7 Comments

Marching to be Equal

And so we went, together, holding hands. Marching for gay rights might sound ordinary to many of you but it’s very special to us, to me. My partner has never, … Continue reading

July 18, 2015 · 9 Comments

Is My Partner Gay?

Sometimes, I wonder if my partner is gay.  We’ve been together for a long time and I know she loves me, but I just don’t think she sees herself as … Continue reading

July 10, 2015 · 15 Comments

Being Free from Myself

Ever since moving to Taiwan, I’ve been dressing like a slob, well, not all the time, but sometimes. I’ve been more carefree as of what I wear and how I … Continue reading

June 24, 2015 · 4 Comments

Stopping that Ding!

They’re changing the elevator system which I thought was a good thing until the new thing went Ding!  It goes Ding! every time it stops at a floor and made … Continue reading

June 6, 2015 · 4 Comments

A Lot of Gay Men in Pink

I finally did Pink Dot!  Last year, I missed out on almost all the major gay events nearby which was annoying because there really aren’t a lot of them around Asia.  I missed out … Continue reading

May 30, 2015 · 2 Comments

Feeling Curious About My (sort of ) Muscular Arms

I’m discovering a new side of myself.  Ever since I got my hair shaved short, I’ve been thinking about who I am because it felt so curiously right to shave … Continue reading

May 27, 2015 · 4 Comments

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