Dining with Lesbians

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Category Archives: Hong Kong

Blessed by a Typhoon

Sorry about these sparse and unpredictable posts, a lot of things have been piling up around me including work and visits from friends, family and a really big typhoon. I’m … Continue reading

August 15, 2015 · 3 Comments

Red Hot Chili Peppers

No, not the band but the actual chili. Just when I thought I couldn’t take the heat, I popped one into my mouth and, oh wow, it wasn’t too bad! … Continue reading

July 1, 2015 · 2 Comments

Being Free from Myself

Ever since moving to Taiwan, I’ve been dressing like a slob, well, not all the time, but sometimes. I’ve been more carefree as of what I wear and how I … Continue reading

June 24, 2015 · 4 Comments

Missing Tofu

I want to go home now.  I’ve been in Taiwan for over half a year and I’m ready to go back to Hong Kong.  I’ve never thought that I’d be … Continue reading

June 8, 2015 · 6 Comments

IDAHOT – International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia

Today is IDAHOT and I am restless in my tiny apartment. When I was in Hong Kong, I actively took part in making IDAHOT happen.  I wasn’t sure what I … Continue reading

May 17, 2015 · 2 Comments

Menstrual Leave

What do you think about menstrual leave?  I wasn’t aware that there was such a thing here in Taiwan until a girl took one yesterday.  Well, yea, sure, I get … Continue reading

May 7, 2015 · 17 Comments

Send in your CV, woman!

Where are all the women?  We suddenly disappear from the workplace when it comes to managerial jobs. Earlier on when I was recruiting for front line staff, I got a … Continue reading

April 17, 2015 · Leave a comment

You left her in Hong Kong?

I was at a workshop for volunteers yesterday with the Taiwan LGBT Family Rights Advocacy (台灣同志家庭權益促進會).  They are a group working for marriage and child bearing rights for the LGBTI community. … Continue reading

April 14, 2015 · 10 Comments

House Hunting for Gay People

There will always be the people who won’t like you for being gay.  But, there will always be the people who are fine with who you are.   I was at … Continue reading

March 24, 2015 · 2 Comments

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