Dining with Lesbians

A bowl of personal identity served with blueberry pie

Category Archives: Relationships

Marching to be Equal

And so we went, together, holding hands. Marching for gay rights might sound ordinary to many of you but it’s very special to us, to me. My partner has never, … Continue reading

July 18, 2015 · 9 Comments

Missing Tofu

I want to go home now.  I’ve been in Taiwan for over half a year and I’m ready to go back to Hong Kong.  I’ve never thought that I’d be … Continue reading

June 8, 2015 · 6 Comments

You left her in Hong Kong?

I was at a workshop for volunteers yesterday with the Taiwan LGBT Family Rights Advocacy (台灣同志家庭權益促進會).  They are a group working for marriage and child bearing rights for the LGBTI community. … Continue reading

April 14, 2015 · 10 Comments

My Girlfriend

My girlfriend my girlfriend my girlfriend. My Girlfriend, my girlfriend, MY girlfriend, my Girlfriend. (I almost forgot how to spell girl, try typing it over and over and you’ll get … Continue reading

April 9, 2015 · 4 Comments

My Girlfriend

She’s finally coming to Taiwan. The last time we went to Taiwan together was maybe 7 or 8 years ago, I can’t believe I’ve forgotten when we went.  It was … Continue reading

March 26, 2015 · 8 Comments

元宵節 (a sort of Chinese-styled Valentine’s)

元宵節 falls on the 15th day after the Chinese New Year which happened to be yesterday.  It’s sometimes called the Chinese Valentine’s but includes a family aspect into it and … Continue reading

March 6, 2015 · 2 Comments

Your Mahjong Personality

Mahjong is a game for four which is somewhat like a cross between dominoes and poker.  And as with any game where you can intently observe your opponents over a … Continue reading

February 25, 2015 · 4 Comments


CNY. Chinese New Year, most important festival for us and my partner is coming over to play mahjong with my family tomorrow!

February 18, 2015 · Leave a comment

Down to the Last Apple and Final Slice of Bread

I’m going home.  Three more days, two slices of bread and one final apple to go.  I’m clearing out my fridge so I won’t open a door to molding food … Continue reading

February 11, 2015 · Leave a comment

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