Dining with Lesbians

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Category Archives: SOGI

Anything Ending with -ism is Too Extreme

It was like watching a movie reflected by a foggy mirror and the characters’ gender had been smudged by the steam. I’ve never seen a person identifying as female argue … Continue reading

August 22, 2015 · 4 Comments

Marching to be Equal

And so we went, together, holding hands. Marching for gay rights might sound ordinary to many of you but it’s very special to us, to me. My partner has never, … Continue reading

July 18, 2015 · 9 Comments

Is My Partner Gay?

Sometimes, I wonder if my partner is gay.  We’ve been together for a long time and I know she loves me, but I just don’t think she sees herself as … Continue reading

July 10, 2015 · 15 Comments

Happy and Hopeful

You must have heard the wonderful news a million times by now, but I just can’t help smiling every time I hear it again.  Ireland is setting such a great … Continue reading

May 25, 2015 · 6 Comments

You left her in Hong Kong?

I was at a workshop for volunteers yesterday with the Taiwan LGBT Family Rights Advocacy (台灣同志家庭權益促進會).  They are a group working for marriage and child bearing rights for the LGBTI community. … Continue reading

April 14, 2015 · 10 Comments

House Hunting for Gay People

There will always be the people who won’t like you for being gay.  But, there will always be the people who are fine with who you are.   I was at … Continue reading

March 24, 2015 · 2 Comments

The Day Dreamer Award – Changing my mind on stone butches

I’ve been nominated by The Little Butch That Could for the Day Dreamer Award. The rules for accepting the award are: Thank the person who gave you the award. Naturally, this … Continue reading

March 15, 2015 · 9 Comments

Looking Up To (and at!) Ellen DeGeneres

Kale.  What kind of chapter is that?  But I can’t stop laughing out loud reading Ellen DeGeneres’ Seriously…I’m Kidding.  It’s not the usual kind of writing style I’d normally pick … Continue reading

March 11, 2015 · 2 Comments

Homosexuality: A History

I’ve always been curious about how, where and when homophobia started.  I understand that the present form of homosexuality has only been around for a hundred or so years which … Continue reading

March 1, 2015 · Leave a comment

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