Dining with Lesbians

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Category Archives: Taiwan

Blessed by a Typhoon

Sorry about these sparse and unpredictable posts, a lot of things have been piling up around me including work and visits from friends, family and a really big typhoon. I’m … Continue reading

August 15, 2015 · 3 Comments

Girls Can Fly

I don’t like roller coasters and I still get nervous on planes.  The only reason I strapped a huge plastic tent to my back and jumped off a cliff yesterday … Continue reading

August 2, 2015 · 4 Comments

Marching to be Equal

And so we went, together, holding hands. Marching for gay rights might sound ordinary to many of you but it’s very special to us, to me. My partner has never, … Continue reading

July 18, 2015 · 9 Comments

Is My Partner Gay?

Sometimes, I wonder if my partner is gay.  We’ve been together for a long time and I know she loves me, but I just don’t think she sees herself as … Continue reading

July 10, 2015 · 15 Comments

Going to a Gay Bar Alone

I don’t usually do this, or more precisely, I’ve never done this before.  But as part of my plan to try new things, I went to a gay bar, alone. … Continue reading

July 5, 2015 · 7 Comments

Red Hot Chili Peppers

No, not the band but the actual chili. Just when I thought I couldn’t take the heat, I popped one into my mouth and, oh wow, it wasn’t too bad! … Continue reading

July 1, 2015 · 2 Comments

Being Free from Myself

Ever since moving to Taiwan, I’ve been dressing like a slob, well, not all the time, but sometimes. I’ve been more carefree as of what I wear and how I … Continue reading

June 24, 2015 · 4 Comments

Missing Tofu

I want to go home now.  I’ve been in Taiwan for over half a year and I’m ready to go back to Hong Kong.  I’ve never thought that I’d be … Continue reading

June 8, 2015 · 6 Comments

A Lot of Gay Men in Pink

I finally did Pink Dot!  Last year, I missed out on almost all the major gay events nearby which was annoying because there really aren’t a lot of them around Asia.  I missed out … Continue reading

May 30, 2015 · 2 Comments

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