Dining with Lesbians

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Category Archives: Women

Anything Ending with -ism is Too Extreme

It was like watching a movie reflected by a foggy mirror and the characters’ gender had been smudged by the steam. I’ve never seen a person identifying as female argue … Continue reading

August 22, 2015 · 4 Comments

Girls Can Fly

I don’t like roller coasters and I still get nervous on planes.  The only reason I strapped a huge plastic tent to my back and jumped off a cliff yesterday … Continue reading

August 2, 2015 · 4 Comments

Stopping that Ding!

They’re changing the elevator system which I thought was a good thing until the new thing went Ding!  It goes Ding! every time it stops at a floor and made … Continue reading

June 6, 2015 · 4 Comments

Familie oder Beruf? My Discriminating German Exercise

Familie oder Beruf?  This is a chapter in my German exercise. The chapter goes on with describing how Nicole, a single mother, balances work and her child.  I couldn’t make myself give suggestions … Continue reading

May 23, 2015 · 6 Comments

The Girl in Nepal

I wonder if the little girl in Nepal is alright.  I wonder if the women there are getting by. We were in Nepal last June and our first cultural shock happened … Continue reading

April 29, 2015 · Leave a comment

Something Dark

Something dark happened today.  No, it was murky and grey, more disgusting than dry darkness. I do Taekwando and I’m a blue-red belt.  Not amazing, but enough to feel confident with … Continue reading

April 23, 2015 · 3 Comments

Mothers and Earthquakes

I was alone in the office when my desk started shaking yesterday morning.  My initial thought was: what the?!  And then I remembered that Taiwan has earthquakes.  I had been … Continue reading

April 21, 2015 · 4 Comments

Don’t wear pink when you fire someone, that’s too feminine.

I was going to fire someone from the team because of inappropriate behavior. Well, frankly speaking, I received a sexual harassment complaint from another team member on behalf of another … Continue reading

March 16, 2015 · 2 Comments

The Day Dreamer Award – Changing my mind on stone butches

I’ve been nominated by The Little Butch That Could for the Day Dreamer Award. The rules for accepting the award are: Thank the person who gave you the award. Naturally, this … Continue reading

March 15, 2015 · 9 Comments

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