Dining with Lesbians

A bowl of personal identity served with blueberry pie

Home but Lost

I’m home.  Very glad to be with family, but I feel so lost without my partner here.  I’ve never felt like this, I don’t know where to go or what … Continue reading

June 16, 2015 · 2 Comments

Missing Tofu

I want to go home now.  I’ve been in Taiwan for over half a year and I’m ready to go back to Hong Kong.  I’ve never thought that I’d be … Continue reading

June 8, 2015 · 6 Comments

Stopping that Ding!

They’re changing the elevator system which I thought was a good thing until the new thing went Ding!  It goes Ding! every time it stops at a floor and made … Continue reading

June 6, 2015 · 4 Comments

A Lot of Gay Men in Pink

I finally did Pink Dot!  Last year, I missed out on almost all the major gay events nearby which was annoying because there really aren’t a lot of them around Asia.  I missed out … Continue reading

May 30, 2015 · 2 Comments

Feeling Curious About My (sort of ) Muscular Arms

I’m discovering a new side of myself.  Ever since I got my hair shaved short, I’ve been thinking about who I am because it felt so curiously right to shave … Continue reading

May 27, 2015 · 4 Comments

Happy and Hopeful

You must have heard the wonderful news a million times by now, but I just can’t help smiling every time I hear it again.  Ireland is setting such a great … Continue reading

May 25, 2015 · 6 Comments

‘If you read this you are gay’ – A love letter to Ireland

Originally posted on Charlie Langdell's Blog:
Today is the day! The Irish people will vote on whether to give same-sex marriage equal constitutional status and I for one cannot…

May 23, 2015 · Leave a comment

Familie oder Beruf? My Discriminating German Exercise

Familie oder Beruf?  This is a chapter in my German exercise. The chapter goes on with describing how Nicole, a single mother, balances work and her child.  I couldn’t make myself give suggestions … Continue reading

May 23, 2015 · 6 Comments

IDAHOT – International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia

Today is IDAHOT and I am restless in my tiny apartment. When I was in Hong Kong, I actively took part in making IDAHOT happen.  I wasn’t sure what I … Continue reading

May 17, 2015 · 2 Comments

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